Teenagers.
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Most parents of teenagers will tell you what an interesting range of emotions their children can experience.
 I remember reading that teenagers can be very similar to lions:- their day consists mostly of lying around sleeping, with the occasional outburst of intense activity, generally when they are looking for food.
Like lions it is almost impossible to tell from one moment to the next how a teenager is going to respond to you.
Purr or roar.
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At some stage in their teenage life with you the subject of redecorating your child's room is going to come up. A teenagers desire to have their own space, and to be able to express themselves in that space, will potentially be one of those times when they are roaring rather than purring.
One of the first things to remember when confronted with a teenager set on redesigning their room, is that it is your teenagers private space, not yours.
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It is important to listen to their ideas, let them have the most input into the way that they want their room to look and feel - within budget of course.
Here are some great ideas to help keep the decorating price down:
A simple feature wall behind their bed - this uses less paint but still gives a stylish appearance.
Change the window coverings - maybe blinds instead of curtains?
Get them to choose new sheets and bedspread, its amazing what a difference that can make.
If you can't afford new carpet, take the carpet up and paint the floor instead, use throw rugs to give a unique feel to the room.
Sometimes something as simple as changing the layout of the room can make a huge difference to the look and feel of it.
As you can see, there are many ways in which a teenagers bedroom can be redecorated that will not end up costing you an arm or a leg.
 You are really only limited by your own and your teenagers imagination.
It is important for you to remember to allow your teenager to express themselves, without you telling them what is right or wrong about what they like. Ask yourself how important it is for you to have your own way.
 You have the rest of the house to stamp your personality in, allow them the luxury of designing their own private space.
Your teenager is developing their first ideas of how they want to represent themselves in the world.
Your job, as their parent, is to simply to allow them to express their ideas in a safe environment.
Guide them, wherever possible, to make the right choices without stifling their individuality.
Make it a fun time for you both, try to avoid conflict as best you can.
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Aim for the purr from your resident teenage lion, rather than the roar.
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